Newcomers
Newcomers
It is recommended newcomers attend a minimum of six meetings. These gatherings provide an opportunity to hear personal stories from fellow members that are likely to resonate with your own experiences. While exploring the program, individuals will discover that they are not alone and that Nar-Anon offers various tools to aid in their journey. It is important to note that not everything heard or read will directly apply to your specific situation. Nar-Anon encourages participants to take what resonates with them and leave behind what doesn't. The organisation embraces and respects diverse perspectives, allowing individuals to tailor the program to their own needs and progress at their own pace.
In Nar-Anon meetings, you will find understanding peers who have faced similar challenges with their loved ones' addiction. Nar-Anon emphasises the power of shared experience, strength and hope. Newcomers may initially believe their purpose is to stop the addict from using drugs, but they will gradually understand that Nar-Anon is primarily for their own healing and recovery. Family members are not responsible for causing the addiction, nor can they control or cure the addict.
Nar-Anon community
Nar-Anon provides a safe space where individuals can freely express themselves. If someone is more comfortable starting by listening, that is perfectly acceptable. There are no obligations or requirements in Nar-Anon, and everyone determines their level of involvement.